The wedding is done, the gifts are opened, and the honeymoon is through. But you’re not quite done. You still have to send out the myriads of thank you cards to all those who gave you gifts, help planned your wedding, and to the people who did the little things no one noticed. Here are five things you’ll need to include when you send out your thank you’s.
- Be Personal and Use Their Names: No one likes to get a thank you card where all it says is ‘Thank you for your gift’. It makes them feel unappreciated and the card immediately goes in the garbage. Be personal with close family and friends, using nicknames and short memories.
- Be Specific About What You’re Thanking Them For: Whatever they gave you or whatever service they provided for your wedding, they put some thought into it. Put some thought into your thank you cards and specifically state what they did for you and why it was important to your wedding and your future life together. When you don’t cut it short and really mean the thank you behind what you’re writing, the receiver of the thank you card will know it and feel truly thanked. A good way to accomplish this is to not write all of your wedding thank you’s in one sitting. Take time to write a few in the morning and evening of each day until all thank you cards are finished.
- Choose Cards That Match: Cards that match the style and theme of your wedding are important because at first glance, everyone will know immediately who the card is from and what it’s about. If they don’t get around to reading your card for a long time, they’ll still know that they’re thanked.
- Both of You Need to Write Them: It’s necessary that the task of writing your wedding thank you’d doesn’t fall on just the bride or just the groom. It will make you both realize the time everyone else took for you. Split the job in half to make it go faster, but make sure you both sign your name on every card so that the thank you really is from the both of you.
- Token of Appreciation: One of the best ways to say thank you is by giving a gift in return. You’re newlyweds and you probably don’t have a lot to spend, but there’s no need to break the bank by saying thank you. Your token of appreciation can be small like a bookmark, or a few chocolates even. Wedding thank you cards will go a long way in making your wedding guests and servers feel adequately thanked.
Writing your wedding thank you’s is a long and daunting task that often feels never ending. Stick to these five things and your job will not only be made easier but you will have accurately and appropriately acknowledged all the people who made your wedding worthwhile.
Remember to send out your wedding thank yous very soon after your honeymoon so you don’t forget! Also, make sure to shop around to find a wedding store that offers you invitations at discount pricing.
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Author: Mary Setter
Article Source: EzineArticles.com
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