Music is without a doubt an essential part of any wedding ceremony. Just what effect or mood you want is up to your personal taste.
Some people like the traditional sound of the classics while others are more into contemporary, pop and cultural music. We will consider both of these ideas and look at the different mood each may capture.
Keep the big picture of what the ceremony and reception look like in your mind and then choose what type of atmosphere you would like to put forth. Also, an important reminder is deciding who or what will play the music The music is there to enhance the exchange of vows not the other way around. I have been to weddings where the vows seemed an after thought. So be careful to choose the appropriate type music and amount of music. Also bear in mind live music is an option not a must. Music on tape or CD will give you the luxury getting exactly what you want and it is less expensive than a band/orchestra etc…
The location you choose will probably set the tone in the first place. If you want a solemn church setting then the music you pick will preferably fit that venue. On the other hand an informal setting such as an outdoor affair will most likely dictate what music will be played, although this is not etched in stone.
The 4 main parts of the ceremony: the prelude, processional, interlude and recessional.
The prelude will set the stage and also let people know that shortly the ceremony will begin. Well chosen prelude music will also entertain your guests and should not be distracting. The prelude should begin
approximately 30 minutes before the time on your invitations.
The processional is special in that the bride enters to it and therefore should be different and somewhat louder so as to be distinguished from the other music. This part of the music can be as traditional or contemporary as you prefer. There are no rules here. A lot of people feel that Wagner’s “Bridal Chorus” is very appropriate here as it is the most traditional wedding march, but keep in mind that many brides choose non-traditional and very contemporary songs for this purpose so try to think outside the box or don’t think that is the only choice you have.
The interlude is just a fancy word for the music you have chosen for special moments you want to emphasize and songs that have special meaning to you and you fiance`. Again don’t fear non-traditional music here. My wife had a good friend sing “The Lord’s Prayer” while playing a guitar at our wedding. Just remember that any music that is played , you will have to stand there and listen, too.
Then after the ceremony you still have to walk out so usually the recessional is the same song as the processional. But again you needn’t adhere to tradition here, so you can have any song you want.
The reception is a horse of a different color so to speak, as far as the music goes. There are more and more couples having long receptions following the wedding ceremony. For many a live band is the only thing that will do, if your budget will stand it. If not, consider hiring a DJ. They aren’t cheap and they are all not the same so verify what their specialty is and make sure they fit your budget and taste. You don’t want to make a mistake here so be careful and take your time choosing a talented DJ, one that not only fits your taste but has a little taste themselves.
I hope this article has helped your wedding plans. Just remember, this is your wedding. Be open to suggestions but also don’t be afraid to put your personal touch on it with your musical choices.
By Bob Ragman, For a free wedding music tutorial and video goto http://freeweddingmusic.net/
Author: Bob Ragman
Article Source: EzineArticles.com
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