Mar 12

Let’s face it: Your wedding is going to cost more than you thought it would. You were lucky to find that reception hall. You could have chosen the cheaper wedding dress. But the one you bought was perfect. Making your own invitations might seem like the way to make up for that.

But is it? Will you save money?
Or will you simply invest in needless aggravation?

Before deciding to make your own invitations ask yourself these five questions

#1 Am I willing to spend entire days putting together invitations?

An invitation made out of three different papers looks gorgeous. But is it worth it? Making even simple invitations takes time. Picture hours of tedium.

This is on top of the time you spend addressing the things.

Remember, whatever time you spend on invitations is time taken away from other parts of your wedding.

#2 Do I hate all the ready made invitations I’ve seen?

Do a lot of research before you answer this. Hundreds of companies make invitations. Check out at least half a dozen before you give up.

If you absolutely hate everything you’ve seen, see the tips under ‘Making your own Wedding Invitations’ below.

#3 Do I have a crew of reliable people who have agreed to help me?

This answer can make or break you. Please don’t try to make 200 wedding invitations alone. It’s a good way to drive yourself nuts.

Or it can add unnecessary stress if you make invitations as a couple.

A reliable crew will turn invitation making into a social occasion instead of a blood bath.

#4 Is my budget so small that this is my only option?

Then that’s just the way it goes. See ‘Making Your Own Wedding Invitations.’

#5 Am I having a small wedding?

If you’re only inviting 10-20 people, go for it. You’ll still be at it for hours if you make complex invitations. But they’ll be beautiful.

30-80: The upper limit of sanity.
Try to have enough invitation makers on your team to keep the ‘invitation to person’ ratio at 15:1.

80+: Frustration here we come.
If you must do this, forget the multiple pieces of paper. Put the ‘please RSPV by’ at the bottom of the invitation. See ‘Making Your Own Wedding Invitations’ below.

Provide liquor and/or chocolate to your invitation-making crew.

Making Your Own Wedding Invitations

–Go to a specialty paper store and finger the samples.

Even if you end up buying online. You need to know what 60-85 pound paper feels like.

Hint: it has to do with the thickness. Printer paper is somewhere around 20-25 pounds. Invitations typically weigh in at 65-85 pounds.

–Keep it simple.

Extra layers mean extra hours. And extra expense.

Invitation ‘kits’ (which include blank invitations, envelopes, reply cards, etc.) will make your life easier.

Be sure to buy paper that’s compatible with your printer. If you have an ink-jet, for example, don’t buy laser-jet paper.

–Automate.

Consider purchasing an invitation making computer program. You’ll get some nice fonts. And customizable templates.

Three Ways To Save Money

–Watch your weight

The post office charges extra for heavy and/or oversized invitations. Check with them before you make your invitations.

–Bulk Up

Buy fancy paper in bulk. Save even more by printing two invitations on one 8 1/2 X 11 sheet. Each invitation will be a long rectangle. Very modern.

–Mooch

Don’t buy specialty equipment to cut those invitations. Go into your local copier store like you own the place and use their equipment. Bring a few sheets of something to photocopy if they give you the hairy eyeball.

These questions and your answers will help you decide if making wedding invitations is right for you. And help you avoid common mistakes if the answer is yes.

Happy planning!

Amy Lee Johnson is a freelance writer who often contributes to Wedding-Vows-4u.com a site that gives useful hints and tips such as buying wedding invitations or writing wedding vows.

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Mar 4

Wedding Photographs – Expensive or Priceless? Here are 10 simple ways to get the best wedding photographs on your day.

1. Look at each other

Please remember you are marrying each other not the minister or the registrar. As a former church minister I just want to assure you its okay to face one another. You have spent a small fortune on wedding photography, but at the crucial moment all that anyone sees in your backs – talk to whoever is doing the wedding and TELL them you want to look at each other.

2. Do, do crazy things on the day

Please do act on the spur of the moment. Spontaneous things can work really great on wedding photographs and a good photographer will lap it up.

3. Colour or Black and White?

Some will say what goes around comes around. But the reality is that black and white and colour photography are very different. Black and white is much more atmospheric and dramatic. Look at samples of photography because colour photographs should be either subtle or vibrant never wishy washy. Make sure you get both in your album. Ask what the mix will be, i usually do 70% black and white for intimate shots and 70% colour for group shots. Ask the photographer which they prefer and why.

4. Do it for real NOT mock

Beware the part-time wedding photographer who will want to do MOCK cake cutting and MOCK first dance so they can get away. Don’t accept MOCK anything. If your photographer is not there when you actually cut the cake, then they’ve missed the speeches, and the meal and that special moment, and the… You want your photographer by your side all day.

5. Can you trust your photographer?

Trust is important. You have to feel you can trust your photographer, after all they will see you all made up and completely un-made. You have to feel you can trust your photographer so when they ask you to do something or pose in a particular way, its going to make a great photograph.

6. Style and approach

A photographer can’t be all things to all people. Ask what their photographic philosophy is – reportage, traditional, journalism. Does their approach agree with yours?

7. Listening

The first time you meet your photographer, check whether you feel they listened to you. At the end of the day you want to open your album and get the wow factor, that happens when the photographer gives you something of what you are expecting, with things your were never expecting.

8. Flexibility

“Customer is King” is a true saying, or in this case ” Queen” and being flexible is essential. I guess all wedding photographers go through the “Packages” stage in their career, I know I did. Here my package, take it or leave it. One thing to know about your wedding is that its UNIQUE. Therefore, you need a photographer who appreciates your uniqueness. If a photographer is not flexible to your desires before your wedding day, they will be even less flexible on your day.

9. To be seen or not to be seen

There’s a big difference between being seen and being noticed. Its your day so do you really want a photographer taking over? – And it happens in so many ways – from telling the couple what to do – to making everyone wait for their meal. I’ve even known a photographer stop the ceremony because he missed a shot. Remember its your day and your photographer is there to guide you NOT dictate to you. However the thing that annoys me most is the photographer with the big flashgun. With the right investment in high speed lenses and a proper understanding of exposure 95% of photography can and should be taken with available light. In the last 12 months I’ve only used flash once.

10. Know what’s going to happen in case of bad weather

You can never guarantee the weather, especially in the UK. When the sun is out photography is easier because there are usually lots of places to go with the bridal party to get great photographs. But when its raining its a different story. Space is usually limited and locations likewise. Without exception I always checkout the wedding and reception venues if i’ve never photographed there before. Because I try to use only available light I need to see where the light is good – but I also check out where we can photograph on a rainy day.

http://www.imaginethat.uk.net Keith Beesley BTh. (Oxon)

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