Once you’re married and have the whole ceremony behind you, the most important event in your newlywed life is probably (and hopefully) the honeymoon. Job, other obligations and plans to have kids will have to wait as you’re going on a journey to release every single emotion your lustful heart has been storing as you planned the wedding, invited your family and friends, and cried over your dress not looking its best (although it did). Now is the time to relax, unwind and devote all of your time to your loved one.
Naturally sex is one of, if not the most important aspect of a lustful honeymoon that is enjoyable, however we’ve all heard almost too many stories of complete honeymoon failures due to simple planning mistakes. Let’s take a look at what you can do in order to have not only a perfect honeymoon, but also possibly the best sex of your life.
Location is everything
We are always influenced by our surroundings in both positive and negative ways. For instance, some people cannot stand the heat as it makes them drowsy, while others live to see another day in a tropical climate. Finding the perfect destination shouldn’t be a hard task, after all, you have agreed to spend the rest of your lives together, yet you will have to dedicate some time into planning the perfect destination.
Have a talk with your partner and find out what turns both of you on. Are you dreaming of having sex on a beach at night, or are you looking forward to cuddling up next to a chimney on a cold winter night? The possibilities are endless, and so are the places to visit, so choose wisely.
Picking the right clothes
If you have picked a nudist hotel as your vacation, kindly skip this step! For the rest of you, the best advice would be to take as little as possible, but only the sexiest clothes you have. Honeymoon is a dreamy phase and let’s not shatter it by bringing old sweatpants. Women should focus on the sexiest lingerie possible and dresses that show a lot of skin, while men can take their grooming to a next level with custom-fit shirts and casual pants. Not being able to have a proper dinner at the restaurant because you can’t get your eyes off your partner can only be a good thing!
And the right tools
We’ve mentioned packing lightly, and for a good reason. The rest of your suitcase should contain only the items you are going to use in bed. Since honeymoon is all about focusing on your love, you will be spending most of your days and nights in the hotel room, and you want to be prepared. Get the most out of it by packing handcuffs, even more sexy lingerie and of course plenty of condoms and wet lubricants. Also, do not be afraid of adding a little diversity to your sex life and look for even kinkier objects to include. which we won’t mention here, but surely you know where to find them.
Experimentation is key
It cannot be said enough! There is only one honeymoon per marriage and it is in your best interest to try out as many things as you can. Eat dishes you usually wouldn’t, visit places you’ve never heard of and do stupid crazy things, you’ll be thankful you did all those things!